The whole world is waiting for you!

A lot of questions come and go. They all expire at some point in life. But some questions always linger in your mind. Why am I here? What is my purpose? Who am I?

These questions are simply put. Though they require an immediate reply. Most of us will never answer. We avoid them trying to dodge at times. Some of us answer for the answering sake. None will be completely satisfied. But only some of us will dare to remain truthful to themselves. Truth in this case is simply admitting that we don't know our purpose in the beginning. We may not know it in the middle of journey. But at the end we will all have the pieces to our puzzle.

So, I dare you to start with admitting...then continue with searching...search for your inner voice...see for yourself what makes you different than others. See what your "mission" is. Become what you are supposed to be.

I know it sounds to sweet and easy. But it is worth a try...thousand tries...To search for your fundamental identity...

Anywhere you go you will see it coming after you...anytime you start convincing yourself that it is no use giving it a try...anytime you do that...know that you are working against HIS will.

God has ordained everyone of us to take a special role. We try several roles but only one becomes our dearest. Only one.

This role requires no masks, no false assumptions, no conflicts. This role is a messenger of our inner peace. Peace that we always seek but rarely find.

Obsession is what drives us towards our mission. We are never fully satisfied untill we find our purpose. We can not sleep at nights until we have unresolved matters.

Each one of us has the ability to make a difference. We are special. Any influential speaker on earth is constantly hammering this point to his audience.

They feel the special fire inside. Fire that brings people together. Fire that lights many other fires.

When you find your voice you instantly change your surrounding. Your voice becomes pure and energy full. As you speak people want to hear more...they want to follow...because they also have questions inside that require answers...

Grab your microphone and speak out...speak as a man that found his purpose in life. Only then you will have a privilige of being happy and fulfilled.

Good Luck!

5000 visitor mark is crossed!

I am so happy to announce that Dreamer Union Inc blog has just crossed the 5000 visitor mark. Not long ago when I just started my blogging journey I did not imagine such result in such a short time. I want to personally thank every single reader and follower for their pure interest in my posts. I fully acknowledge the level of responsibility that is granted to me starting from this level on.

I believe my blog will continue to inspire, entertain and motivate thoushands. I also believe that people that inspired me along the way will continue doing so.

As we hit the 5000 mark in less than 5 months I want to share some interesting facts about the blog statistics. The all time best read article is "How to make a vision board?" which took lead from "What Young Azeri Men Dream About?" Both articles were read more than 1200 times.

Another amazing aspect is a humanly nature of those who search for Ukrainian girls. Their efforts in search ended up in top listed key word that has been search so far just after the vision board word.

I am very open to any kind of advice and suggestion or offer.
Please do not hesitate to write me via e-mail: joshkerimov@yahoo.com  I will be more than glad to consider your offers and ideas on how to modify the blog.

Thank you very much!

Our Salary and Our Orgasms...

Two Things that should last long?

We saw this from our parents. And we guess our parents saw it from their parents. I think the first person who worked for money should have better been executed for all the international crime he committed. He should be slaughtered and cut to pieces and then thrown out to lions. 

Money is root of all evil. This is why most of people are poor. They are poor because they want to be good. Does not sound convincing to me. I would say we are poor because we think that we have no other option. Show us some way and we will grab its balls to get out of the insane life that we experience daily. Look at all lottery players, online betting fanatics, gamblers and etc.  

Being poor is not interesting at all. The same things every day. Nothing changes in a poor mans life. I don't even want to talk about his sexual life. There is a Japanese saying "No money, no happiness". I think Japanese people considered  the sexual dysfunctionality of a male when he realizes that he can not sustain his family no more. 

It has always been my passion to compare things to each other and see the unique truth within the comparison. What can be compared to our salary better than our orgasms? Nothing. 

Everybody dreams about a decent orgasm. Well the same goes for a decent salary. Everything done during the act of intercourse serves a end-purpose to reach orgasm. Everything done during working hours serves a purpose to receive that pay-cheque at the end of the month. It is so scary to see people count their days as if they don't matter. They may matter but not like the pay-day. We want time to fly not realizing that it is given to us with limited amounts. 

For an ideal orgasm you need an ideal partner. A partner that you love, desire, want and think about all the time. You can not reach your peak state with someone you hate, dislike, disregard or even avoid. (Some people live with partners that they barely stand. This leads to imitations of orgasms. It is when you sleep with someone but dream about someone else.)

For an ideal salary you need an ideal career. Meaning you got to love what you do and do what you love. Most of us are in jobs that hardly match their dreams.  I guess you can figure out what they feel when they think about their salaries. (I can already hear words such it is better than nothing.)  It is like making love to a woman and saying it is better than nothing. Only few people realize that there are countless options waiting for us to be taken. It is not only one option game. This job is not ordained to you by some early ancestor or relative. It must be your choice when it comes to where you work and who you sleep with. Only this way you reach your potential at its peak. Period. 

When you reach orgasm everything in your body vibrates and you feel so divine. You become numb for a little fraction of a time. When you reach to the ATM you forget about everything you did previously within that month. There is this moment now and nothing else matters. You are blocked away from reality. The reality is that orgasm lasts only a few seconds. The same happens after you get your cash and go away from ATM machine calculating your debts, credit payments, house bills and other stuff that leaves you with a long lasting discomfort.

These two words have so much in common. Salary and Orgasm. Millions of people desire them both but get lousy versions that can never match the real deal. Today we see people that imitate orgasms and we see salaries that imitate money.  

I wish you all a life with no limitations and imitations. A life where 30 days matter. A life where each new day is not a replica but unique with its challenges. A life where you live, not work from 9 to 6 until you die. A life where you are happy because you do not worry about money and a partner to love  anymore.

And remember money is a tool. Any tool in the hands of a good man serves a good cause. (Be it a charity, or gifts to those he loves or be it thoushands of families sustained through his business.)

A Message to those who have Secret Dreams!

Every person has something in his heart that he secretly dreams about.

It can be anything. Starting from a good career, nice house, luxury car, fantastic marriage, travelling and etc. Dreams enrich our minds and we feel good even when we program ourselves not to believe in our dreams. We still feel good when we dream. For a fraction of a moment we get certain about ourselves and we believe that we are capable of doing almost everything in life. We gain confidence. Though in most of the cases I see more and more people to give up even that little fraction. Time changes us. As we grow we get less confident about ourselves. Depressive mode expands in our territories. Risk becomes an enemy. Comfort becomes a number one priority. Our pursuit of happiness transforms into "I am not happy but at least I am comfortable in where I am?"

I wrote about couple of dreams that became true. Of which the most important one was my engagement and marriage to the girl of my dreams Munavvar. I could not believe in my eyes when I saw her first and then it all happened. I started to dream about her. Soon I realized that she became a part of life. Then she became my life itself. Sometimes when she is asleep I silently stare at her. She reminds me of every single dream I had previously. She reminds me of truth that in this life soon or late every dream comes true. Be it possible or impossible. Be it simple or complex. Be it for one or for all.

I started dreaming at a young age. My first dream was Dandy's game set. My dad bought it when I passed a high school entry examination. I still remember that day. My first dream became true! I was immeasurably happy playing all day long.

My next dream in the list was crossing the Atlantic Ocean and being in The United States. It happened in summer of 2002 when I stood at the flight gate waiting in anxiety for my plane to arrive. On that day I realized that I am crossing a new line in my life. I am going to a place where everything is extremely different and supposedly better than in my homeland. The next thing I remember is landing in Denver Colorado and shaking because of excitement. I made it to USA. Unbelievable! I had a full year that transformed personally and psychologically into a new phase of my character building. I became flexible and much more open to society ready to share my ideas and feelings. I believe I will cover that experience in another entry of mine.

I also remember about my "Antalya" dream. When I studied in university I had a close friend who worked in touristic agency. Faruk would talk about his past work experience. I would listen and dream about doing what he did and being where he had been. Especially when he talked about Antalya I would picture myself in some exotic beach walking under sun. His stories were stuck in my head untill I flew over to Nakhchivan and got into bus then took 27 hour ride to Antalya. Faruk's stories had to step off because my stories were adding up on a daily basis.

My Antalya experience led to many changes in my life. I got much more responsible. I learned how to deal with customers and how to dive into multicultural pool. I still remember a dinner at Kempinski Hotel where I sat next to an aristocratic french family and making jokes about women drivers that turned into an instant hit. I was a boy from a middle class family of Baku sitting next to those who had everything that a middle class family boy could dream about. Sitting there I promised myself to become a father to such family.

Dreaming is like playing a game that you adore. You can't stop it. Dreams change in quantity, quality and coverage zone. As I got skilled in my game I understood that I am responsible for what I dream about.

I remember my mom telling me to forget about Malaysia in 2009. She told me to get serious about my future life and think about my career. I still see the shock on her face when I left Baku to be in Kuala Lumpur for 5 days for a business conference. It was an impossible dream even for those who knew me for many years. My close friends and relatives were in despair when they heard the news. I saw Petronas Towers. The same ones I saw in the movies and dreamed of being at. Amazing it was to step on the grass in the middle of KL and to see variety of people coming to this huge place full of opportunities. Our university dean Salim bey always told us that patience is the best virtue in business. I took this opinion and modified for myself. Patience is the best virtue in dreaming game. You must wait and see what comes next and how your dream transforms into real time experience or sweet past time memory.
 

All I can say is dreaming is sacred and it changes from person to person. As we grow our dreams must grow with us and within us. We can not give up at any age to fight for our dreams if necessary. If not for them then for what to live for?

I decided to do coaching because I love working with people who forget about their dreams and give up on them. I love to fight for the chance to shake them up and get them back on the track again.

Those who read my entry need to analyze their lives. Please go back to your childhood. Get back to your memories and think about the things you dreamt of. Make a Personal Dream List. Start dreaming again and soon you will get back to essence of your being. My personal dream list always gets upgraded and never leaves my mind.

I always stick to this statement : If your dream is big enough the facts don't matter. Money, time and what others say to you plays no role at all. Your decision is defining factor! Whether your dream becomes true or not depends only on YOU!

Good luck!